*Please kindly understand that the questions are selected not based on its importance, but randomly selected.
Q.
If Rapist was already in a 10+ year relationship, what was his goal with Lee? Just a sexual fling and nothing more? If so, sure seems like a lot of effort for something so trivial!
A.
Rapist started to date his ex-girlfriend when he was only 17 years old, in Korea. I think his biggest problem was that he committed, at an early age, to a girlfriend for the next 10 years of his life. I mean he was barely 17 years old. What did he know about this world?
He didn’t also go to a university. Well… He went to a university in a country side where whatever universities are located in Korea (so different from the United States, right? Where in the U.S. good schools are often located in the country side.) He rarely went there because he didn’t want to be isolated from the city, Seoul, and attend the university which degree would not even be properly considered by a Korean regular society. So he didn’t have an opportunity to meet lots of different social crowd in order to properly develop social manners. He wasn’t harmful (until he came a rapist), but he just never experienced new girls and new people where for other normal people, you usually make girlfriends, fuck buddies, whatever, in the universities after being confined in a cubicle cell for years after years preparing for the university entrance exam.
You are let off the leash. You are young. 18, 19 years old. Probably a lot of the steam needs another lot of space to release itself. He never had the opportunity. His girlfriend (now his ex, going forward, referring her to ‘Joo”) waited for him during his army duty as well (2010~2012.)
The problems were that when Rapist opened to the new world (I guess just a bigger world than his neighborhood at home) that’s when he started to get a little crazy with his social and sexual domain control. He joined a soccer club (soccer is bigger than any other sports in Korea.) Although the soccer club he newly joined was just another neighborhood club, still the club represented a society a little larger than his small circle/bubble he was living in. He started to meet new guy friends and their girlfriends. And little by little, he developed a slight more confidence in interacting with the people. He took club trips together.
The reason for a long opening was to give a little background on him from my understanding. I think that he just reached his climax in purely horny nature. I have heard that he used to fuck around with this girl (Refer to her as: Young) who I used to go to the elementary school with while he was dating Joo. And I heard that Young used to fuck around with Cuckold too before. Young used to live so close to me. Because of her promiscuous behavior when she would often get drunk (very irresponsible and wanting to sleep around with any guys next to her,) Jealousy used to be really upset over her behavior with Cuckold and Rapist. Like… you are talking about, your best friends are fucking the same promiscuous and dirty slut in town. LOL.
Well, the bottom line is I never know what his intentions were with Lee, but I can guess pretty accurately (it is better to be accurately right and precisely wrong) that first he wanted to fuck. It takes immaculate efforts for him to strike up a conversation with any ladies. He is just a shy man. The only reason he was able to fuck around Young was because she was a known slut in the neighborhood among the Clique and Cuckold used to fuck around her too. So, it would be like an easy introduce-to-each-other type of situation.
When I introduced Lee and told the crew that we were just hanging out together and especially when Rapist heard that I met her online it really gave him a green light that he could sneak behind and do whatever. Because I remember when the Clique (especially Jealousy) was mentioning about ‘defining’ my relationship with her together, I made it clear that we weren’t officially dating but spending time together. And indeed, that was what I was doing. And to Rapist, I am sure that he took it as “Friends with Benefits.” And he was (and probably still is) at the climax of his horny state, lurking around and groping other girls.
He was caught many times by the Clique members too, on his behavior, while weirdly ‘feeling around’ the Clique’s girlfriends (weirdly wrapping his hand around the girlfriends’ waistline in a karaoke place, etc.) And it happened VERY and VERY suddenly that it was pretty difficult to point out unless catching it right at the moment and on the spot and the girlfriends backing their claims on his misbehavior. But how many brave and bold women are out there in the world especially when such things happened in the close circle of Clique (friends almost around 20 years) and they got to call him out???? Probably no one, unless all the pussies of the Clique decide “fuck this, we are kicking you out”.
Instead, they all took a turn toward just not seeing him or even if they’d see each other, they would not sit next to Rapist. And the boyfriends of the Clique being careful of Rapist’s actions. I mean, more and more Rapist became isolated. So it was only men in the Clique hanging out, no girlfriends allowed usually. If we do, then in a very very special occasion, like the new year party etc.
I became the next target, and that time I was really attacked from behind.
I do not know what the future would have been from 2017. But now Rapist has a new girlfriend he’s seeing (pretty sure he is dreading that other guys might place their hands on her. Karma is a bitch.)
So, who knows? Just hypothetically speaking, who knows if Lee slept around him (just hypothetically) and if they both liked each other and started to go out as a couple.
By 2017, one thing is clear that Rapist was tired of his ex girlfriend (Joo.)
First because they were in a 10 year old relationship then,
Second because of her personality.
Joo was a nice girl. It was just that she wasn’t socially active. She didn’t want to work. She was just in her own world still living off of what her father used to give her as allowance under the holy name of “I am preparing for an exam to get a job.”
So, pretty sure mature and have-a-job and self independent Lee (also she had a very sexy face from what other people used to tell me) stood out in his eyes. And as usual, he took the coward steps to approach her while I was spanking her big butt with my hands.
Rapist (and the whole Clique, and in a broader sense average Koreans) was like a cancer cell that feeds off of other live cells. He didn’t have guts to speak to other girls, but he was like this amoeba//maggot sucking off of what others spent time to develop relationships in.
Trust not the Korean men. Especially the average dicks.